Is love blind ?

So on fb someone (mino) posted a photo of a pair of old no good boots that she was going to get rid of and I went forth and commented on there and another friend/cousin of hers commented (jed) and then we went forth with disputing on love. Not negatively but jokingly about love and blindness and so forth and I came out with this: 

“No but to be in love with some one or something you have to have an attraction to them and that attraction then turns into persuasion / relationship/ buying the shoes/ car /horse/ or anything it is- first an attraction a “hey look at that/those/her/him” and then from there on out it turns into love. I cant be in love with “blank” if I’m not attracted to “blank”. something draws me to it and that draw is attraction and that can even be applied to “mind sets – or how people think” like i can be attracted to a person not based on looks but based on their thinking process or views on the world or how they treat others. but the key line here is attractions draws which turns into something more.. thus being that love is not blind because you were first drawn to it/thing/item/him/her/ what him her thinks or does or says: so therefore what lead you to love was not the blindness but an clear view of something that triggered attraction in your brain/mind which open the doors to love.”

What do ya’ll think ? I’ve done plenty research on these topics because I want / had wanted to be a relationship psychologist and the biggest aspect in a relationship is love but anyways the prime idea here is that no love is not blind because you were drawn to the thing or person that you are in love with first. you were drawn through a primary sensory: seeing, hearing, tasting, touching ( I may have missed one ..) before it could lead to something else. (i.e. love)

Must say friends I’m pretty proud of myself for being this come-backy. usually I would have been like “no not true” but I actually used some knowledge.

The post of Questions followed by answers ?

As you begin this survey, what is the current date and time?

January 8^th 2014, 2:29pm

 

How has your day been so far?

It’s been okay

 

How are you? Are you okay? I just thought I’d ask, because people don’t always bother to ask.

I’m okay, feel like shit about a mistake I made yesterday.

 

If you’re NOT okay, what’s wrong?

I wish I could turn back time and stop myself.

 

The last time you left your house, where did you go? Did you walk, or travel in a vehicle?

I don’t have a home L but yes the last time I left my Boyfriends house was around 11 to go get nmy hair cut he drove me there but I walked back home.

 

In your opinion, who is/was the coolest teacher at your school, and why?

…I’m not in school.

 

Are you wearing anything blue? What about purple?

Yes my shirt.

 

What tinned foods do you currently have in your cupboard?

Uh, pees, soup and I think Braviolli from what I remember.

 

Who was the last person you yelled at? Why?

I haven’t yelled lately lol

 

Do you know anyone named Graham?

naw

 

Are you sitting next to anyone?

naw

 

How many girls do you know named Alison?

I think I graduated with one but I’m not sure. lol

 

Do you dislike the last person you Facebook messaged?

Neh he’s annoying.

 

Who was the last person that sent you a Facebook friend request, and you ignored them? Why did you ignore them?

I mainly accept all so idk

 

Is there a certain person that you only have to think about, and you automatically smile?

Well no shit Sherlock- the one and only Daryl Dixon ❤

 

Do you dunk biscuits in your tea/coffee?

Yes sir

 

Who is your favorite person to have weird random conversations with?

LMFAO Jessie <3333 our Batman/ pizza nights.

 

Does it bother you when someone goes offline without saying “bye”?

Ain’t got a worry

 

Is there anyone in your group of friends that you don’t completely trust? If so, why do you feel that you can’t trust them? You don’t have to give names.

I trust all my close friends, the other ones well they are prolly just acquaintances.

 

When was the last time you used a computer in a public place?

never

 

5 random facts about the person you love/like.

#LongBeardDontCare

I love his eyes, they’re so Blue

He has a thing for cars.

He will make me laugh beyond no end in order to get me to smile.

He is good at everything he does- lmfao I wish I had skills like those.
Do you prefer to do the asking out, or be asked out?

I have only asked one guy out …

 

Is there anything happening soon, that you’re NOT looking forward to?

Paying bills related to cars and such. And paying my debt.

 

Have you ever called a teacher mum/dad?

Aw fuck, yes it’s terrible.

 

Who’s the quietest of all your friends?

Do I have a quiet friend ?

 

What were you like as a 10 year old?

Goin with the flow and fat.

 

Who did you last say “I hate you” to? Did you mean it?

I didn’t mean it, sometime during a fight.

 

Do you own anything that is heart-shaped?

All my heart things are broken.

 

Have you forgiven the last person that broke your heart?

…

 

Are you home alone right now? If so, where are the people you live with?

I is. BoyFreeend is working on my car with his pops and his  mom is at work.

 

What colour was the last towel you used?

Green

 

Are you planning on getting drunk anytime soon?

I pretty much well gave up on drinking.

 

How old were you when you got your first computer?

13 or something.

 

Are you a chocoholic?

Sadly my thighs say yes.

 

What kinds of music do your parents like to listen to? Do you share any of their taste in music at all?

Not really.

 

Did you ever have an imaginary friend as a child? What was his/her name?

Nope.

 

 Is there a song that reminds you of the person you love/like? Do you listen to that song often?

Anything Breath Carolina and Bass like reminds me of him.

 

What’s the date and time now?

2:53pm

Facebook status

Okay this is a small warning; this blog is basically going to be small rant.

So over a small period of time  I have had a few people go “oh, well your single” right? No; WRONG. I have a boyfriend of almost 3 years and have been  friends for much longer. Then people usually respond to my *WTF* expression  by saying well Facebook says your single. (Is Facebook my mom ?! No)

Well I’m sorry that facebook does not  represent everything that goes on in my life, though if you wanted to know more you can always check my blogs which are about my life and I frequently post updates on twitter. I just feel like it if it is not ‘facebook official’ it isn’t official. B!tch Please; give me  a break I don’t feel the need to post that much on facebook, everyone who knows me personally knows I have a long term boyfriend and that’s just that. I don’t feel the need to post extremely personal stuff on Facebook, I think the most personal I get online is on my blog.

And of course it just can’t stop there you have people who don’t believe and all that crap and honestly it just gets long and annoying.

Lastly what if you and your guy break up, then get back together a few days later; does everyone need to know this? No. Especially if you have a couple that’s prone to frequent break ups why should they post their status which are ever changing online. 

But really am I the only one who doesn’t care about that sort of stuff when it comes to facebook?

Is there another online social media site that you post more information about yourself?

(I’m going to stop ranting now)

Peace